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Insecurities - IN-SECURITY - SACCURITY - Need to go!

Anyone get my "Bon Qui Qui" reference? haha... She is a character created by Anjelah Johnson. Check it out if you need a laugh :) I will include the link at the bottom :)



I am all about breaking up words lately... In-Securities.


It is about time I dive IN and be SECURE with who I am. Lets get real here. Why do I feel like I am not good enough or that I don't look the right way. Who says what I am supposed to be or look like? This is so frustrating as I experience my new self. Since there isn't another me out there, why on EARTH do I let anyone tell me how to feel about myself or how I should look???


It is because I let people's comments tell me and I react emotionally as if they are true. I don't have people walking around telling me I suck all the time, it is actually the opposite. I do however, have deep rooted thoughts associated directly with people I encounter. Maybe how they "goffed" at me or how I heard they said something about me behind my back. I have also been on the receiving end of someone completely 100% made up lies about me to protect their own reputation. Fine, to that I say "sorry you aren't strong enough to own your nonsense."


I am strong enough. With my underwire posse reminding me that reacting to nonsense brings more nonsense... I let it be. I am better for it. You will be too.


Faith said, "we are born perfect, we just live in a judgy society. We are born who we are supposed to be." Janie agrees and added "God made us the way he wanted us to be." I couldn't agree more! Whether you believe in a divine being or not, we are here and were born to be who we are. Lets stop trying to make everyone else happy with a version of our true selves. Lets be happy with who we are and the people that love us for who we are will make up our environment.


Talk soon!


xoxo


~rj


Check out this Bon Qui Qui link! Thank you Google for the photo!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jZkdcYlOn5M

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